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My goal is to be a guide through Self Awareness, Personal Growth and Self Development So you can become About THAT Life - The life you have always meant to live.

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I became a Mumma at the ripe old age of 18! This happened a year after I dropped out of High School and was one big hell a of a walking question mark on who I was and what on earth I was going to do with my life and how this was all going to turn out.

 A lot of people were pretty certain that this combination wouldn’t work out too well and really didn’t have any faith in me at all. But I made it my mission to prove anyone who doubted me wrong, and to be just as good as a mother as anyone else.

I’ve been on a serious rollercoster throughout my mothering years, but they are what have taught me the absolute most about me, and about life.

 They say relationships are your biggest mirror, but for me - My kids are the biggest mirrors I will ever have in my life.

The time I started finding motherhood a lot easier was the time that I started looking at myself first, and not my children's actions. I needed to heal myself so that I could give my child the best parts of me - something that I struggled doing tremdously before this. I could never figure out why parenting was so hard, but it turns out, most of the time it wasn't my children making it hard, it was me not looking at myself first...

I honestly think as a parent Self Development is the most important thing we can do, what we are now is what we are teaching our children to be.. So it’s pretty important to figure out who we are now and become the best version of it.

After all, we all want what's best for our children, and what's best is giving them as much love as possible, making them feel special and giving them everything they need to grow up and love who they are. But we really can't do that unless we learn to love ourselves first. A concept I desperately needed to work on when I first became a mum, but didn't know how. 
Parenting always has it’s difficult parts, it's without a doubt the most testing and difficult thing we can embark on. What helped me in some of my hardest moments as a parent was to read about other people’s journey's... So here are some of my parenting journey's, along with the lessons I’ve learnt from them..

I may be a very young mother, and people may judge that, but as parents we all share a common ground - Parenting is hard, no matter what age - and connecting with someones journey may make this rollercoaster ride just a little bit easier.

 

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Did you know smiling (even for no reason) produces different feel good chemicals in your body? Try it.. ✨ ✨ ✨ Did you just smile to yourself? Cute, me too. ✨ If you didn’t the first time, you did the second.. or now 🙃
So very tired. So very in love. So many goals to achieve. So many dreams to make a reality. But sometimes you have to put your mental and physical health first. 🖤 Constantly in a battle with myself about this, but I need to practise what I preach. When you get the message to slow down, slow down. 💭 Everything is happening FOR you in life, not to you.. literally everything. The quicker you view it like this, the quicker you will see the hidden blessing. 💭 So now that you know this, what thing in your life that feels hard or uncomfortable right now, can you start to look for a deeper lesson or future blessing in? ✨ If you don’t look for it, the Universe will continue to give it to you in different forms until you get the picture. Look for it now, and make your future life easier. ⚡️
Luckiest Mumma in the world 💘
If it was as easy as just changing yourself from the outside, we’d all have the answers. . I wish it was as simple as just changing ourselves from an external point of view.. buying things, losing weight, getting the guy/girl.. but it’s not. . It all comes down to your minute to minute management of your internal world. 💭 Inner change is where the real magic comes in. ✨ This week, set an intention to listen out to what your thoughts are telling you, and remember... don’t believe every thought you have, only believe the ones you chooooooose to think. 💭
Sunday’s with 2/4 Bae’s. 🖤
4 months post 3rd 👼🏼 and starting to feel stronger and fitter again 🙏🏻 ✨ I’ve put my body through a lot... years of negative self talk and toxic thoughts towards it, years or depriving it and punishing it, years of deeming it never good enough, and after all that.. it rewarded me with the most amazing 3 miracles in the world 💖 The only time I found peace in my mind was when I made peace with my body, and loved it for all that it was, no matter what.. Self love doesn’t come from changing your body, it comes from changing your mind and I promise it’s possible for you too 🖤